So- he wants to keep dating me after that first date and even landed a kiss on me…. When I last saw him (August), he said that he needs “time to soften toward me again.” Like he lost romantic feelings… I told him that I can’t date him because he’s putting in zero effort and seems to be no interest in his side. He ends it with, “I haven’t shut the door on us.” It’s now almost November and I miss this guy. After five months we spend a weekend together (last December) and it was great.
Within that month he and I were completely infatuated with one another. Ok, so I waited for a month feeling confused as to what I did and what had happened. After my visit we talked a few times and his messages started to have a longer and longer delay and less and less content until after a month or so I told him that I miss him but I understand if he can’t invest in me right now.
I am currently suffering from anxiety from a similar situation Hi Mr.He was the one who started all this talk about missing me and so on. But weeks go by where he loses complete interest and doesn’t initiate us seeing eachother. I felt like he was forcing a reply and asked something about my new apartment. So in my mind we ended three months ago, he’s probably clueless to how mad and hurt I am and I try so hard to move on but it stings to have a guy make you fall for him and now he doesn’t seem to have any intention of keeping me. This isn’t to “let the guy off the hook” or passively accept a situation.I know he’ll be back one day but a part of me is hoping it would be faraway in the future or never at all. The benefits are that you don’t end up inadvertently making the situation worse and, without negative emotions clouding your view, you can look at the situation with clarity and peace.the mistakes I made was I yelled at his Female assistant, when I drunk on my birthday. I didn’t remember any of the event cause I was so drunk, I only remembered that I vomit before I passed out.
The next morning he became cold and distance and kicked me out from the apartment we rented, his PA told me that he needs to go to Singapore to attend a meeting and I better leave cause they want to finish some work before going to the airport.
He won’t meet with my family or help me through it. Wouldn’t help me get a car when mine broke down, just let me jump in the car with him while he drove himself to work.